Sometimes your senior might not want to talk about incontinence because it’s embarrassing. She might also avoid the conversation because she doesn’t want to acknowledge that it’s become an issue. Regardless of why she doesn’t want to talk, it might be up to you to get the conversation rolling.
Determine Your Goal Ahead of Time
You may feel as if your goal is just to talk about what is happening with your aging family member due to incontinence, but there’s more to it than that. You may already have a solution in mind, for example, or you may want to convince your senior to talk to her doctor about potential medical causes and solutions. Work out what your end result desired is for this conversation because that will help you to plan the talk more effectively.
Let Go of Your Own Frustrations
Incontinence can be incredibly frustrating for your aging adult, but it can also be frustrating for you. This is a perfectly valid feeling, especially if you’re doing more laundry than usual or your senior is being particularly stubborn about dealing with the situation. But frustration is going to make you say things you don’t really want to say, so it doesn’t have any place in the conversation you’re trying to have. Do what you can to let go of your frustration before you set up the talk.
Bring Her Doctor in on the Talk
Especially if you’re concerned that your senior’s incontinence issues have a medical cause, it’s vital to talk with her doctor about the situation. Your aging family member’s doctor can help you both to understand what in particular is contributing to her incontinence issues and what potential solutions exist. Her doctor can answer any questions that you and your senior have as well.
Set up a Plan for the Future
The main goal of your conversation is to determine a plan for going forward. This plan might involve changing your senior’s diet, using specific incontinence products, or researching medical causes and solutions. Remember that senior care providers can help you to set up a plan that will work well for your aging adult and for you. Their experience can help you to avoid some potential pitfalls.
Remember that you don’t have to solve everything in one conversation. It’s entirely possible that you and your elderly family member may need to have variations on this conversation a couple of times in order to work out a thorough plan.
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