Facing the challenges of being a family caregiver on your own can be daunting. If you have siblings, dividing the care tasks among all of you is a wonderful way to not only ensure that the entire burden of fulfilling your parent’s care needs does not fall on any one of you, but also to enable your senior to spend more time with their children.
This is wonderful for their emotional health, and the diversity of care can stimulate their mind for better mental health, and stronger cognitive functioning. Having your siblings all involved in your parent’s care is also fantastic for promoting closer relationships and stronger bonds among the different generations and members of the family. In order to get the most benefit from this type of arrangement, however, it is important to be careful and strategic when dividing the responsibilities.
The first thing to keep in mind when dividing care responsibilities with your siblings is your parent. This arrangement is first and foremost for their benefit, so make sure you are keeping their thoughts, opinions, and preferences in mind as much as possible. If your parent would like a specific one of your siblings to manage a specific one of their care tasks, try to make that happen if at all possible.
Once your parent’s opinion has been acknowledged, you must recognize the fact that dividing the tasks is very likely not going to be even, but this does not necessarily mean it isn’t “fair”. Evaluate the amount of time, effort, and other resources each of your siblings has available, and divide the tasks accordingly. One sibling may have plenty of time and be able to prepare meals to stock your parent’s freezer each week as well as bring them to doctor’s appointments each week, while another sibling may live too far away to be this involved and can contribute by paying for senior care or for other aspects of their daily expenses.
Include senior care in the discussion so your siblings can all be confident your parent’s needs will be effectively met even if none of you are able to fulfill all of them, or if there are conflicts regarding how they should be handled. Paying for this senior care provider’s services can be a beneficial way for a sibling to contribute even if they are unable to be with your parent on a regular basis.
Being a family caregiver for your aging parent is not about handling all of their needs yourself. In fact, the needs and challenges of a senior adult are often far more than one person can handle comfortably and effectively on their own. Dividing your care responsibilities with a care team, such as your siblings, family, and friends, can ease this burden and improve your parent’s care.
Even this, however, may be not be enough. This is where senior care comes in. having an elderly home care services provider in the home with your aging parent can be a fantastic way to ease stress and ensure your senior has access to all of the care they need. Even when siblings live at a distance, are unable to participate in care in the ways your parent needs, or is unsure how to help, senior care is the support your senior needs to live their highest quality of life as they age in place.
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