What Can You Do if Your Aging Adult Insists She’s Okay to Drive?

No matter how you feel about your aging adult’s ability to drive, she might have a different perspective. In fact, she might insist that she’s perfectly fine to drive. So now what?

Home Care Services Canandaigua NY - What Can You Do if Your Aging Adult Insists She's Okay to Drive?

Home Care Services Canandaigua NY – What Can You Do if Your Aging Adult Insists She’s Okay to Drive?

Bring in Her Doctor

Your elderly family member’s doctor is one of your first resources if you’re trying to convince her to hang up her keys. Talk with her doctor about whether or not she’s okay to drive. There may be a variety of factors to consider and her doctor has a handle on most of them based on the treatment she’s already receiving. Some additional testing might come in handy, though.

Have Some Tests Performed

While there’s no specific medical test that can keep your elderly family member out of the driver’s seat, there are a combination of tests that might do it. Testing your aging family member’s ability to reason, her reflexes, and her vision are all important to determining whether she can continue to drive or not. There may be other tests that are important, too, so ask her doctor about those.

Get an Independent Driving Evaluation

Another way to determine if now is the time to stop driving is for your aging adult to take an independent driving evaluation. Many driving schools and even some DMV offices have an expert in driving evaluations who can ride with your elderly family member and determine if she should continue to drive. In some areas, drivers might be put on a type of probation for a period of time. Talk to the Department of Motor Vehicles to find out the options available to you.

Stick to Your Guns, But Be Compassionate

If you truly have reason to believe that your elderly family member shouldn’t be driving any longer, don’t waffle about it. Stick to your guns, but don’t make her feel bad about this. Instead of blaming her for being unable to drive any longer, make this about her health. What you’re really concerned about is her safety, so that’s where the focus needs to be.

Make sure  that your aging adult has other options available, even if she insists she doesn’t need them. Home care services providers, local agencies that help the elderly, and even neighbors can all come in handy.

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John Hunt

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