Helping a Parent Adapt after Surgery

The relief a child feels when an elderly parent comes out of the surgical room is enormous. And yet, much of the work has just begun. Depending on the type of surgery, your parent may require support, both physically and emotionally, as well as transportation to appointments and rehabilitation. They may need help with mobility issues as well as time spent together helping them take their mind off any concerns or pain by using the power of distraction.

Home Care Canandaigua NY - Helping a Parent Adapt after Surgery

Home Care Canandaigua NY – Helping a Parent Adapt after Surgery


An elderly parent may be concerned about losing their independence following surgery. They may have been instructed to change their lifestyle in ways that seem near impossible to just very unappealing. If they have a long recovery facing them with limited mobility, their increasing sense of isolation may slowly warp into depression. Help them with these changes by following the same instructions when you are with them. This includes not smoking if they’ve been asked to quit, eating along the same lines as their new diet protocol recommends and not drinking alcohol if they have been asked to abstain.


Helping your parent stay ahead of the pain post-surgery helps them keep a positive mindset, which is vital to the healing process. To this end, make sure they take their medication in a timely manner. Encourage warm baths with sea salt and a few drops of the essential oil of lavender, if they have been given the okay to indulge in baths post-surgery. Ask their doctor about the use of ice and heat, which can often relieve pain with 20 minutes of ice followed by 20 minutes of heat. If you’ve been in pain, you know one of the best tools to minimize its severity is the technique of distraction. Keep your loved one engaged with a card game, sharing a good movie, reading a book together, or enjoying one of their favorite meals.


Ensure their home is as safe as possible for them during their healing. This is accomplished by removing any tripping or slipping hazards such as throw rugs, wires or furniture that is blocking common pathways. Make sure they have good lighting and that a trail of nightlights has been placed from their bedroom to the bathroom. Install grab bars in the shower and by the toilet.


Rehabilitation is often prescribed post-surgery. If your parent is missing appointments or showing hesitation, ask them about their concerns. They may fear increasing pain which can be discussed with their therapist and resolved. Rehabilitation is an important part of the healing process.

Home Care Provider
Consider obtaining the services of an elderly home care provider post-surgery. These professionals can assist with everyday activities as well as provide transportation and run errands. They will remind your parent when it’s time to take their medication, keep them engaged and encourage them, making their road to recovery a little smoother.

If you or an aging loved one are considering Home Care Services in Canandaigua NY, contact the caring staff at Caring Hearts of Rochester today! Serving Rochester, Pittsford, Greece, Webster, Canandaigua, Fairport, Perinton, Penfield, Brighton, Henrietta and surrounding communities. Call 585-245-0134.

John Hunt

John Hunt

I am the owner of Caring Hearts of Rochester, LLC.

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